Child safety : A collective responsibility

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M. Shahjahan Memon & Tania Shahjahan : Muhammad Shahjahan Memon is an independent researcher and leads the social initiatives 'Right Information At Right Time, Bagri Community Matters' and 'Fight Against Child Abuse'. He can be reached at: [email protected] Tania Shahjahan is a blogger and leads the social initiatives 'Fight Against Child Abuse' and 'Right Information At Right Time'. She can be reached at: [email protected]

Childhood should be a time of innocence, joy, and discovery, but for many children today, it’s far from that. Increasingly, we hear stories of abuse, neglect, and exploitation, leaving behind both broken bodies and shattered spirits. Every child deserves to grow up in an environment where they feel safe, loved, and respected, but the reality many face is harshly different. The scars left by such trauma regularly last a lifetime, affecting both their future and the future of society as a whole.

We can no longer afford to turn a blind eye. It is our moral duty to protect the most vulnerable among us. Children who endure trauma frequently carry the weight of their experiences long into adulthood, with research repeatedly showing how these early wounds lead to lifelong mental health struggles, academic difficulties, and risky behaviors. The damage doesn’t stop with them; it spread far and wide, affecting families, societies, and future generations. This harsh reality makes it clear that we can no longer afford to merely talk about the need for child safety – we must take concrete action to protect our children and, in doing so, secure a healthier future for everyone.

Schools, families, and local governments must come together to create spaces where children feel safe, respected, and protected. This starts with implementing strong child protection policies and educating communities on how to recognize the warning signs of abuse. Equally important is ensuring that support systems for victims are not only in place but easily accessible to those in need. Furthermore, law enforcement must take a firm stance by holding offenders accountable with strict legal measures, sending a clear message that crimes against children will not be tolerated. Children deserve to survive – they deserve a society where their rights are protected, their dreams supported, and their innocence safeguarded.

We urge our policymakers, educators, and leaders to take immediate action to ensure the safety and well-being of the next generation. Protecting children requires creating systems that truly listen to their needs. Sweden’s legal framework, which centers on the “best interest of the child,” demonstrates how prioritizing young voices can transform society’s approach to safety. South Korea’s tech-savvy solutions, such as anonymous reporting apps, remind us that innovation can bridge the gap between silence and support. These practices challenge us to reflect: what are we doing to ensure every child feels seen, safe, and respected?

It’s time to take these lessons and adapt them to our unique contexts, because no child should have to wait for a system to catch up with their cries for help. Imagine being a child living in the shadow of poverty – small hands working instead of learning, laughter replaced by silence. Poverty takes away more than material comforts – it steals childhood itself, forcing families into impossible choices that often lead to neglect or exploitation.

In homes where cultural taboos silence discussions of domestic abuse and sexual violence, the silence becomes a shield for abusers, leaving victims unheard and unprotected. Parents and caregivers, struggling with their own battles, may lack the knowledge or resources to provide the nurturing environment children deserve. On a larger scale, the very systems designed to protect children often fail them, crippled by weak laws or underfunded services; each of these factors links together to create a grim reality for countless children, making them vulnerable to abuse and neglect. But their stories don’t have to end here.

With addressing the root causes – poverty, stigma, and systemic failure – we can rewrite these narratives and give every child the safety and love they deserve. For a child living in poverty, every day is a battle for survival, leaving no time for school or play. When cultural taboos bury discussions of abuse, the shame isn’t on the abuser – it falls unfairly on the victim, leaving them isolated and powerless. Prevention is a strategy – it’s the foundation of a child’s well-being, a promise that no child will grow up in fear or harm.

Picture a mother or father, armed with the knowledge from a workshop, recognizing the early signs of distress in their child before trauma can take root. Such workshops equip caregivers with tools to build nurturing homes where children feel safe to be themselves and know they are loved. In closely bonded neighborhoods, local leaders and neighbors can act as the first line of defense. Through surveillance programs, they are trained to notice the subtle signs of neglect or abuse, stepping in when a child’s voice is too small to be heard. Mass media campaigns can also challenge harmful cultural norms that turn a blind eye to abuse, shifting the narrative to one where the safety of children is everyone’s responsibility.

When these preventive measures become a natural part of everyday life, we can build a society where child protection is second nature – where no child has to wonder if they are safe and where every child can grow in a caring and loving environment. From grassroots neighborhood safety groups to individual vigilance, everyone has a role to play. These groups can help organize regular safety checks, provide families with the knowledge they need to protect their children, and advocate for stronger resources in the community. It’s not enough to simply hope abuse will stop; we must take personal responsibility to report signs of abuse and support those in need.

Advocacy and activism play a critical role in breaking down the stigma that keeps abuse hidden, encouraging victims to step forward without fear. When we come together with this shared purpose, no child has to face harm alone. Unresolved child abuse and neglect have severe consequences, for both the victims and for society as a whole. Studies show that early trauma notably increases the likelihood of mental health disorders, risky behaviors, and poor academic outcomes.

Economically, untreated trauma results in higher healthcare costs, reduced workforce productivity, and the continued cycle of poverty. For example, children who grow up in abusive environments are more likely to need long-term psychological support, straining public resources. The intergenerational nature of these issues highlights the urgency of action; neglecting child safety today only compounds the challenges of tomorrow, eroding societal progress.

Technology opens new pathways to prevent child abuse. Anonymous reporting tools and mobile apps like Child Helpline Pakistan (1098) empower individuals to report suspected cases discreetly, ensuring that victims and witnesses can act without fear of retaliation.

Artificial Intelligence and data analytics can identify patterns of abuse, enabling law enforcement and social services to intervene proactively, as seen in initiatives like the National Child Protection Centre’s online reporting system. Moreover, online platforms like SehatKahani provide children with access to educational resources, teaching them about their rights and how to seek help. Integrating technology into child protection efforts, we can create stronger systems to prevent abuse and provide timely support to victims in Pakistan.

Imagine a child who knows how to recognize danger and speak up for their safety – a child equipped with the knowledge and confidence to protect themselves. Children shouldn’t have to rely passively on others for their safety; they must be taught how to safeguard their own well-being. Through age-appropriate education, we can help them identify unsafe situations, understand their boundaries, and feel empowered to report inappropriate behavior. These lessons could be the difference between a child escaping harm and enduring lasting trauma.

Schools, as the heart of many children’s lives, have a critical role in building these essential life skills. With integrating child safety education into the curriculum and developing a culture where students feel heard and supported, schools can become a pillar of protection. When children are equipped with the tools to protect themselves and are encouraged to trust their voices, they reduce their vulnerability and contribute to a society where safety becomes a shared responsibility.

Children from marginalized backgrounds – orphans, disabled individuals, or those from minority groups – live on the fringes of society’s protection. Deprived of access to education, healthcare, and other basic rights, they become invisible victims, enduring risks most of us cannot comprehend. Targeted interventions, such as shelters for homeless youth and advocacy campaigns for disabled children, can present these young lives a chance to reclaim their dignity and safety. Equity in child protection involves much more than a responsibility – it’s a step toward giving every child the tools they need to thrive, regardless of where they come from.